about Amma?

It’s my grandmothering name.

I spent a lot of time while my daughter was pregnant trying out different names for myself. “Grandma” made me think of my (old) grandmas. “Nana” was too close to nunna, which is our family’s code for nursing. Everything else was too cute. I was stymied.

Then I read an article about the Desert Mothers. According to Mary Earle, author of The Desert Mothers: Spiritual Practices from the Women of the Wilderness, “these women lived in the fourth and fifth centuries, C.E. The ammas, as they were called, help us to find ways to gently pay attention to God’s presence with us in all places and through all things. And they teach us to grow in the awareness that we are each unique, remarkable parts of a vast, vital, interconnected cosmos. The word means mother. It came to refer to those women who were spiritual mothers to many. Their insistence on practicing silence, solitude and stillness provides a kind of medicine for our over-heated, frenetic culture.”

That’s what I want to be for Adaline. Her Amma. I don’t think I’ll be running through parks with her or climbing jungle gyms. But I can be a quiet, restful, peaceful presence in her busy and stimulating world. I’m already good at getting her to sleep, so I think I’m on the right track.

Published on July 20, 2010 at 3:31 am  Leave a Comment  

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